It is perfectly normal for siblings to fight. As a parent, avoid being a referee in every single battle. Let the children work things out on their own. It can be hard to be patient and watch as one child is unfair to another. If you stay out of it, they will learn conflict resolution […]
The after school routine can be as stressful as the morning routine. Be sure the child understands what is expected. Responsibilities might include: homework, practice and evening chores. As evening goes on, make sure they are caring for their responsibilities. Avoid the nag – that does not create a positive dynamic. Just gently remind them. […]
I believe parents should let THE CHILD determine when he or she is ready to potty train. Some preschools will not accept a child if he or she is not potty trained. Talk to the head of the school – it is ONLY up to the child to decide when ready. Work with the school […]
If you let your child decide when they are ready to potty train you will avoid power struggles You can face negative consequences when you strong-arm your child to toilet-train Kids have been known to actually hold onto their stool and refuse to go These negative consequences can lead to medical problems
Raising a self-reliant child starts the moment you come home from hospital. Start by asking the question ‘Is my child old enough to own this task?’ – Is my child old enough to sleep through the night? Is my child old enough to dress himself? If you ask that question as your child grows, then […]