When choosing a consequence for a misbehavior, consider how severe the misbehavior was. Create a consequence that is related to the misbehavior. Make sure it is a consequence you can follow through with. Have small repeatable consequences in your back pocket ready to go should a misbehavior occur.
It makes me so happy when I see a child come into my office with clothes on backwards or not matching I know that it is a family environment where that child was given the autonomy to choose what he or she was wearing and to get dressed on his or her own As children […]
It is perfectly normal for siblings to fight. As a parent, avoid being a referee in every single battle. Let the children work things out on their own. It can be hard to be patient and watch as one child is unfair to another. If you stay out of it, they will learn conflict resolution […]
One of the hardest moments in parenting is separating from your child against his or her will. Whether it’s during drop off at school, when leaving for work, or while slipping in to the other room to get something done-it’s never easy to pry yourself free from the clutches of your sweet baby and then […]
The after school routine can be as stressful as the morning routine. Be sure the child understands what is expected. Responsibilities might include: homework, practice and evening chores. As evening goes on, make sure they are caring for their responsibilities. Avoid the nag – that does not create a positive dynamic. Just gently remind them. […]